Why Are All The Good Guys Always Taken, Gay, Dead, Or Available? -

I have been Lucky enough to surrounded with good office colleague who always shares a great deal of bonding with me and not only that, due to that bonding they share their personal feelings and life story with me as well. One day one of the female colleague was just sharing her life story and her worries about her future husband. As she was standing on her age to get in relation she was scared with the thought of failing in relation at this age. I asked what is the matter why are you so negative about your future. And hence she told me that Harshil  i was liking a guy who was friends friend, So i was a good friend to her as well ..i was knowing him from 3-4 months but i kind of liking his sweetness towards female and before develop any kind of soft corner for him i got to know he was not straight i mean u got it right Harshil ?? I was clueless i said ya..ya got that. Then she said my basic worry is when i see a good guy i find either he is taken , Gay or just Available for everything..!!

p.s ( Now coming up all the words in this Blog are directly from That friend of Mine , it's not me it's her talking to you here. )



Being a single woman today isn’t easy. After a long week at work, it’s hard to find the time and energy to go out, navigate the crowded dating scene, and try to find a deep romantic connection. And here’s the thing: When you finally do come across one of the good guys out there, why does it always turn out that he’s either taken, gay, dead, or available she said. 

Honestly, I couldn’t tell you the last time I met a nice, intelligent guy who didn’t end up being in a long-term relationship, attracted to other men, currently deceased, or unattached and actively looking for a partner. It never fails!

All the ladies out there know exactly what I’m talking about. It seems like you can’t start a conversation with a cute, charming guy anymore without him mentioning that he already has a girlfriend or a boyfriend or no romantic companion at all. And if it’s not that, then you soon discover that he lived and died 300 years ago, or that he’s alive right now, or that he doesn’t exist yet and won’t be born for decades in the future, or that he’s just in your imagination.

Now, I’ll admit that some of the blame falls on me—I can be pretty picky. When it comes to a potential partner, there are certain things I’m just not willing to compromise on. He has to be educated, polite, a good listener, and have a sense of humor. But of course, whenever I think I’ve finally met that perfect guy who fits my criteria, he drops the bomb that he’s engaged, or that he’s a purely fictional character from a book or movie, or that he’s a real living person, or that he’s single.

This happens literally every time.

And then I think to myself, uuuff, not again! Why do you always fall for the married, gay, single, straight, alive, dead, bisexual, imaginary,  or extra-dimensional guys?!

But the thing is, it’s not just me. You’d be amazed by how many times my friends and I have sat down and shared stories about falling for a sweet, interesting guy who seemed like real marriage material, only to find out later that he’s already in a serious relationship,  or that he’s actually just a coat hanging from a door and only looked like a man from far away. Seems like that’s just my luck, you know?

I’m sure some of you probably think I’m exaggerating or being melodramatic. But let me give you a rundown of my admittedly pathetic romantic history over the past year, just to give you an idea of what today’s women are up against. The last nine kind, charismatic guys whom I’ve been interested in have been, in order, gay, married, 10 months old, still living with his mother, single and open to dating.

I guess the bottom line is that we women have to learn to accept that most of the true catches out there have some sort of sexual orientation, exist or do not exist.

I’ll admit, though, that there are some days I feel like giving up. 

And despite all this, I still believe deep down that there’s a wonderful guy out there for me somewhere. I just have to keep my eyes open.

After this Talk i was again clueless and thinking whether i should agree with her or should motivate her with my verbal support ??? As in the end i am a good Friend of her who is also Committed.